My friends and I debate about this issue ever so often but we always end up with the same conclusion, if a woman is dating a man that keeps their relationship a secret from his family and especially his friends then maybe she's not the only one he's seeing. And that's usually the case. Another thing is that he doesn't want to be seen in public with you because he isn't proud to be with you. A man won't claim a woman he doesn't want. Most likely he's getting entertained from all your investments in the relationship but he doesn't think you're good enough to introduce to his loved ones.
Some of my friends think that maybe the guy just wants a bit of privacy, especially if the relationship is new. However, if you’re dating for several months or years, then privacy is simply no excuse unless you’re a celebrity couple. I mean girls lets be real. If the man doesn’t take you out to dinner, doesn’t take you to the movies, you don’t know any of his friends, or what his house looks like, and he only wants to sleep with you, then something is definitely wrong. A long and hard conversation should come up between you and him, and if he can’t find a logical explanation (though there truly isn’t any other than the obvious reasons) as to why he keeps you a secret then maybe you should consider my previous statement: a man won’t claim a woman he doesn’t want.
This is just my opinion. Leave your comments below.