So the question begs, when are we going to do the do boo?!
Some self-proclaimed relationship “experts” like Steve Harvey in his book, Act like a lady, think like a man has a three month rule. Basically, he tells women not to have their legs splayed out like two parallel lines, hanging on a chandelier (my words not his), for at least three months, after which they are allowed to lick lick the lollipop which I highly disagree with.
Age is anything but a number, so why should sexing be put on a timer. How about we just go with the flow?! As far as I am concerned, we live in a world filled with double standards, highly favoring men and making women look less than. Women are labelled as sluts, if they sleep with a man on a first date, whilst the man is touted and put on some Christopher Columbus pedestal. By the way, CC did not discover the Americas….another day’s discussion!
The expectation is that as a woman, sex should be indulged in during the course of a marriage, or only when ya’ll have known each other for close to an eternity. Whatev!
Engaging in the do should be devoid of any social expectations! Society can be a menace and pryingly so. Doing the do, should be done in comfort of the two parties involved. I understand that there can be more than two parties, but let’s just stick to the norm! oh shit, didn’t I just say before to throw caution at societal expectations.
Have fun and as always strap up!!!!! Condoms are cheap.
What ya’ll think?! 3 months or go with the flow….explain your reasoning.