Now and then my friends and I debate on the topic concerning men and cheating. I’ve often questioned the saying ‘once a cheat, always a cheat’ because I truly believe that people change and forgiveness should be given. So, that conversation has always ended up unresolved due to the fact that my friends believe the man will always be a cheater and should never be trusted again.

In my opinion, it boils down to having self-control and respecting your woman enough to turn a blind eye to temptation. Not all men are dogs. I stand firm on that belief. If the man cheated once, then he should do the work in rebuilding his relationship if granted a second chance. Trust will only be given if he so deserves it; however, the woman has to be willing to put her faith in him again. It’s hard, but at the end of the day it takes two to make things work. 

That’s just my thoughts about that. What do you think?

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