relationships

My boyfriend, my hero…hopefully

My girls and I are always having discussions about the kind of qualities we look for in men. Often times we say he has to be determine, ambitious, kind, attractive, and the list goes on. But what I hope for above all the other attributes, yes even before hotness, is courage. Lord knows I do not [...Read More]

November 17, 2011 // 0 Comments

The side chick wants more commitment?

A few days ago I stopped by a Dunkin Donuts on my way home to get a cup of my favorite Vanilla Chai tea. While waiting anxiously for this sweet beverage to be served to me, I couldn’t help notice the very interesting conversation going on between two friends at a table further right from where I [...Read More]

November 6, 2011 // 0 Comments

“Help! My girlfriend beats me.”

There are many cases of women being physically abused around the globe; whether it’s by the hands of their husbands or boyfriends, it’s still a horrible thing happening to one too many. Often times these women find the courage to come forward and seek help, but sometimes they don’t. People [...Read More]

October 21, 2011 // 0 Comments

Single, broke, and depressed

Things don’t always work out the way you planned so it’s recommended that you always have a back-up. But what if life prevents you from even having a plan B? What if you took the one last chance you have left to be happy, knowing you had no other options to fall back on? Well, that’s exactly [...Read More]

October 21, 2011 // 6 Comments

Hands off b**ch!

Not certain if we’ve posted about homewreckers in the past but still, I feel it’s an issue that should be addressed on the regular. Ladies, do you have female friends or have noticed some female in general that are just straight up catty and always be flirting with your man, even though they [...Read More]

October 12, 2011 // 1 Comment

Stuck

Have you ever been in a relationship which seems to be absolutely stuck? It’s neither going backwards nor forward. You are continually coming up with reasons to justify why you are still together and ignoring the seemingly clear signs of a potential [...Read More]

September 15, 2011 // 1 Comment

Why men can’t cover their tracks?

Have you ever wondered why is it that men often crumble apart when faced with accusations, while women stay well put together? Well, I’ve thought about it and came up with a few reasons for this. Check out my list below: 1. Women start to investigate once they sense something is wrong, [...Read More]

August 8, 2011 // 0 Comments

Do you really want a nice guy?

How contrary is it that women often say they want a nice and honest guy but always date the bad guys instead? It’s quite simple actually; nice guys finish last while bad guys get all the action. A man will often find himself in the ‘friend zone’ when he provides support and [...Read More]

May 18, 2011 // 1 Comment

100 and counting

  What do you think about someone who has slept with more than 100 people? Well, such bed hoppers might be referred to as “porn stars” because those are the ones having that many sexual encounters, only difference is they get paid for it. I don’t know how our readers feel about [...Read More]

May 15, 2011 // 0 Comments

Would you support a man that doesn’t work?

I don’t know how some ladies feel about working to take care of their home and their unemployed men, but I for one know that there is no way I’m going to take care of a man laying around the house while I’m out busting my behind trying to make a living for both of us. And I know some [...Read More]

May 12, 2011 // 1 Comment

Sex and seduction!

Yes! Lloyd is back.  Remember the boy who gave us the Get it Shawty number  he is back  with an ultra sexy banger! This time he wants us to Lay it Down. It was love at first hear for me. My girl, Keri Hilson is in the video, looking hella fly. Although, imma need her to come back to her senses! [...Read More]

May 7, 2011 // 0 Comments

Second time’s the charm

I love yahoo news, especially the comment section.  If you want to see the most colorful and eclectic mix of commentors, yahoo.com is your destination unknown. So today I was perusing the news section as I always do, when I came across this piece, Marie [...Read More]

May 5, 2011 // 0 Comments

Is dating still necessary?

I pity the fool who doesn’t take courting seriously and dives into bed first. There’s so much to gain from spending time with a person and learning about their personality, interests, and basically if they’re sane. I mean why would you sleep with someone who you’ve only just [...Read More]

April 28, 2011 // 0 Comments

We dey suffer oo!

Since time immemorial, women have fought for equal rights and justice. In a world where double standards exist, and are unfavorably judgmental towards women as compared to men, it is no wonder gender equity still remains a hot button topic. A pipe dream to say the [...Read More]

April 24, 2011 // 2 Comments

Don’t Lose Sleep Over A Breakup. Why?

Breakups tend to be very emotional. Some loose sleep, others can’t eat,  the majority can’t get over it. Daily life becomes a pain in the heart.  Meanwhile as your languishing and going through your emotional mambo jumbo, your ex is over in Jamaica having the time of their life. He is [...Read More]

April 23, 2011 // 1 Comment

Age ain’t nothing but a number. Really?

Aaliyah famously crooned, “Age ain’t nothing but a number”. But is it really just a number? Usually when an older gentleman is spotted with a younger woman, the conclusion is two fold: He is a wealthy old man with money to spend looking to revive days gone by. While she is a [...Read More]

April 22, 2011 // 4 Comments